I feel kinda bad for saying this and I get if you disagree but I feel like we're getting carried away with superfan stuff. Like some of the things I read would shock me if it was written about me, and that's kinda the standard I like to apply for everything.
"Would I be weirded out by this if it was about me?" And if the answer is yes you probably shouldn't post it.
Again I kinda feel like an asshole saying this and maybe Jon doesn't mind it anymore but he's been an artist that is pretty adamant against fans having para social relations with him.
TLDR: Let the artist be an artist and not your imaginary husband or bff.